Alright, non-Black people of color (NBPOC) — we need to have a talk.
We can be anti-Black too. In fact, it’s probably more common in our communities than we realize, or we would like to admit.
It’s easy to disassociate ourselves from racism and anti-Blackness, but the fact of the matter is, it’s not just a “white people” issue. It’s an us issue, too.
Of course, this list is not exhaustive, and your actions shouldn’t stop here. But if you’re wondering how to be a better ally as a NBPOC, here are some good starting points.
(AUTHOR’S NOTE: You WILL be uncomfortable doing a lot of these things. That’s the point. No change has ever been made by staying comfortable. You WILL also get things wrong. That’s okay, and often expected. The important thing is that you learn from your mistakes and get better.)
Protest — but do it right
Going out and protesting is very important right now, but it’s also very important to remember that our job as NBPOC is to act as support, and not instigate or lead anything. We’re attending a protest about Black people, for Black people. It is imperative that we are willing to follow and listen to Black leadership at these events.
Additionally, if you see fellow NBPOC at a protest who are acting out of line (trying to lead chants, instigate police, etc.) it’s our job to call them in and stop them.
Open your wallet
This is probably the easiest thing we can do that still has a measurable impact. We all need to be showing financial support, whether it’s donating to bail funds, pro-Black charities and organizations, or supporting Black-owned businesses (or doing all of those things). It doesn’t feel as cool, but the reality is that money does, indeed, make the world go ’round.
Don’t know where to start? Here’s a quick list of resources to help you redirect your money:
- Places to Donate to Support Black Lives Matter (Also includes several ways you can donate if you don’t have money, and a Black owned businesses list.)
- The Know Your Rights Camp Legal Defense Initiative
- An Easy Way to Split A Donation Across Several Funds
- 75 Black Owned Businesses to Support
- 62 Black Owned Brands to Support Today and Every Day
- 125 Best Black-Owned Beauty Brands to Support Right Freakin’ Now
Also, please remember that Google is free! You can search for Black-owned restaurants in your area, Black-owned businesses of all kinds, and pro-Black charities and organizations that are local to you, all with a few keystrokes.
Call out anti-Blackness in your community…
We all know them. People who use the N-word, who believe in the model minority myth, or would 100% pull an “Amy Cooper.” It is our responsibility to call out this behavior in our communities, especially since so many of our communities love to engage with (and to be perfectly frank — steal from) Black culture.
… and then take on the burden of educating your community (and yes, that means your family, too.)
As an extension of the last point, it’s not enough to just call out behaviors, we also have to actively educate our communities (including our parents and families — yes I know) about how they are actively, and subconsciously anti-Black. While we won’t change everyone’s mind, it is important to educate as many people as possible. We cannot simply cut these people out of our lives, no matter how easy it might be to do so. Though it definitely seems scary at first, it gets much easier over time to confront and educate people. Practice makes perfect!
Ready to get started? Here are some resources to help you better educate your community and family:
- What to Do if a Family Member is Racist and Says Something Racist
- Translations of the Black Lives Matter Carrd
- Letters for Black Lives Translations
- A Letter From Young Asian-Americans To Their Families About Black Lives Matter
Keep educating yourself
Understand that you will never stop learning. You’re going to be learning and unlearning toxic behaviors until the day you die. But that’s okay. The important thing is that you’re always willing to sit down, shut up, listen, and keep learning. Additionally, know that it’s your job to actively seek out these resources, and to not always rely on your Black friends to “teach” you. It is not their job to make you a better person.
The following are great places to start:
- Anti-Racist Reading List
- For Our White Friends Desiring to be Allies (Aimed at white people but applicable to NBPOC, too)
- Black Lives Matters Carrd
- Black Lives Will Always Matter Carrd
Oh, and one last thing.
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